
It’s common for people to proclaim that they don’t care what others think. Conventionally, it’s almost seen as a badge of confidence or honor.
I don’t care what other people think of me (or X). See? I’m cool!
In most cases I don’t think this is true though.
The person proclaiming this, to themselves, others, or both, is lying. Â They do care what others think on some level and to some degree. It would be the rare individual that truly doesn’t.
I’m not even sure that it’s healthy to completely detach yourself from that care.
To the contrary, and to be completely honest, I do care what other people think on important topics, and even, of me.
The difference between me and your average joe however is that I care about what I think *more* than every and any other person on earth.
And I don’t mean this figuratively or metaphorically, I mean it literally, and to the extent that most people would consider it “monstrous”, “narcissistic”, or any number of other derogatory terms…






