Just Like I Said, Don’t Chase

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Morgan Freeman gets it. Don’t chase. It’s that simple, even if it’s not always easy. This truly is “the secret” to picking up women.

Secret as in the most effective behavioral change you will *ever* make. Ever, ever, ever.

And what does it mean on a deeper level?

As you might have guessed, it’s a re-focusing on and of the self. It’s the application of selfishness to dating.

And I am not convinced there is a way around it for all the “not my personality” naysayers.

When someone says that, I think it’s tantamount to saying “strength training just isn’t my cup of tea”, which is tantamount to saying “teeth brushing is just not my thing, you know?”.

You’ll be amazed how passionately some people will defend the accumulation of past chasing experiences too. I’ve been there, and it’s stupid. Don’t waste your time.

Live your life, fight for your values tooth and nail, and let women flock to you.

For all for the “this is just theory jockey nonsense” naysayers … how the hell do you think I landed my girlfriend?

(Interesting fact : I was not going to give that interview because she was my girlfriend, but she encouraged me to do it anyway, and I’m glad I did).


About Anthony Dream Johnson

CEO, founder, and architect of The 21 Convention, Anthony Dream Johnson is the leading force behind the world's first and only "panorama event for life on earth". He has been featured on WGN Chicago, and in the NY Times #1 best seller The Four Hour Work Week.    His stated purpose for the work he does is "the actualization of the ideal man", a purpose that has led him to found and host The 21 Convention across 3 continents and for 6 years in a row. Anthony blogs vigorously at TheDreamLounge.net and Declarationism.com.

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4 Responses to Just Like I Said, Don’t Chase

  1. Richard March 14, 2013 at 10:02 pm #

    I don’t understand this concept. I’ve spent the majority of my adult life single because i haven’t chased women. What am I doing wrong then? How do you meet women without going out with the intention of looking for them? How did you meet people when you were single?

  2. Free Woman March 27, 2013 at 9:56 pm #

    Women chase Morgan Freeman because he’s rich and famous.

    • Anthony Dream Johnson March 28, 2013 at 11:47 am #

      What is your point? Lots of women will chase Morgan F. because he is rich and famous. Others will not, because they themselves are “rich and famous”.

      What should he do when he’s attracted to a woman who is as successful of an actor as he is?

      Chase her?

      No, absolutely not, and that is probably his larger, fundamental point. The comment you left is a knee-jerk reaction I’ve seen other women make to this idea. Don’t moo with the herd ….

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