Morgan Freeman gets it. Don’t chase. It’s that simple, even if it’s not always easy. This truly is “the secret” to picking up women.
Secret as in the most effective behavioral change you will *ever* make. Ever, ever, ever.
And what does it mean on a deeper level?
As you might have guessed, it’s a re-focusing on and of the self. It’s the application of selfishness to dating.
And I am not convinced there is a way around it for all the “not my personality” naysayers.
When someone says that, I think it’s tantamount to saying “strength training just isn’t my cup of tea”, which is tantamount to saying “teeth brushing is just not my thing, you know?”.
You’ll be amazed how passionately some people will defend the accumulation of past chasing experiences too. I’ve been there, and it’s stupid. Don’t waste your time.
Live your life, fight for your values tooth and nail, and let women flock to you.
For all for the “this is just theory jockey nonsense” naysayers … how the hell do you think I landed my girlfriend?
(Interesting fact : I was not going to give that interview because she was my girlfriend, but she encouraged me to do it anyway, and I’m glad I did).