Cheating is a big part of Catholicism. You think Italian men don't cheat? Cheating is their culture. And the best part of cheating is the cheating confession booth. So congratulations he repurposed your 21 convention into a Catholic mass and confessed to you as if you are the priest.
In order for a system to function it needs both a Symbolic Father and an Obscene Father. The Symbolic Father is the face of paternal authority. While the Obscene Father teaches how to fudge the rules.
All organizations function like this.
I guess the lesson is that regardless of how you view yourself and your organization, these people have a certain life path that they follow regardless. He needs to cheat and he needs to confess the same way he needs a toilet to poop in and a bed to sleep in.
Where the pooping sleeping and confessing take place doesn't really matter to him.
Cheating is a big part of Catholicism. You think Italian men don't cheat? Cheating is their culture. And the best part of cheating is the cheating confession booth. So congratulations he repurposed your 21 convention into a Catholic mass and confessed to you as if you are the priest.
In order for a system to function it needs both a Symbolic Father and an Obscene Father. The Symbolic Father is the face of paternal authority. While the Obscene Father teaches how to fudge the rules.
All organizations function like this.
I guess the lesson is that regardless of how you view yourself and your organization, these people have a certain life path that they follow regardless. He needs to cheat and he needs to confess the same way he needs a toilet to poop in and a bed to sleep in.
Where the pooping sleeping and confessing take place doesn't really matter to him.